Alright fellas, it’s PSA time.  I’ve been seeing a lot of posts like this just about and I figured I’d toss my two cents into the mix, so a bit of advice: Don’t ignore her for your nerd hobby. We may be gamers, and we are understanding, but nothing is more heartbreaking and kills self-esteem like vying for attention against a videogame.  No, I’m not asking you to give up your hobby, or even to drag her into it. I play videogames, D&D, Magic, I love being a nerd, but I also love just being two people who don’t have to have an activity to maintain a relationship. I think all of us nerd girls are just asking that our relationship has more value, that we have more value, than a hobby.

Alright fellas, it’s PSA time.  I’ve been seeing a lot of posts like this just about and I figured I’d toss my two cents into the mix, so a bit of advice:

Don’t ignore her for your nerd hobby. We may be gamers, and we are understanding, but nothing is more heartbreaking and kills self-esteem like vying for attention against a videogame.  No, I’m not asking you to give up your hobby, or even to drag her into it. I play videogames, D&D, Magic, I love being a nerd, but I also love just being two people who don’t have to have an activity to maintain a relationship. I think all of us nerd girls are just asking that our relationship has more value, that we have more value, than a hobby.

(via wynneisms)